Monday, December 29, 2008

What Have You Been Doing?

I'm coming to understand that I'm not a terrific blogger. At least up until now.


Perhaps the best I can do for my readers is tell them why.


This time, I was busy writing a novel. I finished yesterday, so I feel a bit free, with time to write for this blog. To me, as a novelist, writing a novel—finishing that novel and putting it in the mail—comes before blogging. It's a personal thing. Not every writer feels that way.


If you're a writer, it's a mighty good thing to sit down every once in a while and reflect on two thing:


1. What are your life priorities?


2. Are you living in congruence with those priorities?


In my case, I believe my priorities to be:


1. My health and the health of my family.


2. My novel writing—not merely writing, but improving my writing.


3. My relationships with my friends and colleagues, especially helping and being helped by my writing colleagues.


4. My teaching: the Problem Solving Leadership workshop, the AYE Conference, my Satir Writing Class, and other classes I offer from time to time.


5. Communication with my readers, as in blogging and answering inquiries, and occasionally speaking at conferences.


6. Vacations. This must be the bottom of the list, because I can't remember taking a vacation in at least thirty years.


Money is a very low priority at this point in my life because I have more money than years in which to spend it. In fact, giving away money is a higher priority than getting more. It wasn't always that way, and I know it's not that way for lots of young writers. Some older writers, too.


A writer's list of priorities is not nearly as important as whether or not that writer is sticking to that list. If you're not, then you need to face up the the discrepancy. Change your list or change your behavior. If you say that novel writing is a high priority, but you skip writing this week to paint the basement floor, what does that tell you? If becoming a published writer is at the top of your list and you have dozens of finished mss. that you've never mailed, or stopped mailing after one or two rejections, why are you kidding yourself?


Anyway, that's where I've been. One more novel in the mail. Where have you been?
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9 comments:

Alik Levin | PracticeThis.com said...

Jerry,

Good to hear your are back to share more insights on your blog!

I hope to see more insights for consultants, like myself.

I have read your book on secrets of consulting and it resonated a lot with me.

Please share more stories from your gigs on the blog!

J.D. Meier said...

Well put!

It reminds me of Resistance. Resistance is a metaphor Pressfield uses in The War of Art to sum up everything in ourselves that holds us back.

I hadn't realized you had turned your sights to novels. I'm a fan of your guides on writing and consulting. It's refreshing to read somebody who does it and writes about it. Of course, it helps that your prose packs a witty punch.

Mostly what I like though is your model of building an incremental shelf. You've productized yourself well. I think it's similar to Maxwell's approach of adding value, one thin guide at a time.

Dwayne said...

I am glad to see that "health" is at the top of your list. I have just spent two weeks visiting relatives for the holidays. I have spent much of this time with people who are in their 70s.

For a writer, what do you think are the more important aspects of health? Which of the senses are more and less important? Which parts of the body are more and less important?

What do you do to keep your health?

Gerald M. Weinberg said...

Be happy. Surround myself with happy people (lke you). Eat well. Exercise regularly. Sleep. Write. Share my writing. Ignore people who try to make me feel unhealthy. Smile a lot. Tell jokes and listen to them. Live in a healthy environment and avoid the unhealty.

Dwayne said...

"Live in a healthy environment and avoid the unhealthy."

I am a little surprised by this sentence. Maybe I am misunderstanding. I believe you are an F in MBTI. Is it UnFeeling to avoid or neglect the unhealthy?

Brian said...

Jerry, what you said - "Be happy", etc.

Bottom line is that most of what we worry about is of no consequence.

Abraham Maslov's hierachy of needs - food, shelter, etc. Association. Self-actualization. Then all that other stuff.

Gerald M. Weinberg said...

Dwayne said...

"Live in a healthy environment and avoid the unhealthy."

I am a little surprised by this sentence. Maybe I am misunderstanding. I believe you are an F in MBTI. Is it UnFeeling to avoid or neglect the unhealthy?
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Jerry:
I truncated. I meant unhealthy environments, not unhealthy people. Last week Dani had an awful cold. i didn't stay away because Dani is a healhy person, even though she sometimes get sick. So I got a cold. So what? A week with a cold is a small price to pay to be with Dani, and I did a lot of writing, too.

The people to avoid are those who seem to suck the energy out of you--the energy you need in order to write. Avoid those people. Do I need to catalog them for you?

Dwayne said...

"...avoid are those who seem to suck the energy out of you...Do I need to catalog them for you?"

No need, I have encountered plenty of them. Thanks for the clarification.

Don said...

Jerry,

I wanted to drop by and say thanks for visiting my blog and for leaving two comments. Both were unexpected and absolutely put a big grin on my face.

I enjoyed your list of priorities. They are very similar to my own. My priorities are well-contained in my personal affirmations, some of which have shown up on my blog.

I also like your comments about checking for internal consistency. I'm a former programmer turned special educator. Internal consistency matters whether you are creating an application, a Resource Specialist Program, or a happy and meaningful life.

So thanks again. I'll be exploring you blog on writing.

All for now.

Don